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Keep it a secret from your mother
Keep it a secret from your mother




Most of the users who commented slammed the woman's mother and backed her decision, claiming that her mother's behaviors are abusive. Since it was shared to the social media platform on March 4 by the post which can be seen here has been upvoted by 97% of the users who engaged with it and commented on over a thousand times. Unsure whether she was being fair in her decision or not, the woman called upon others in the AITA subreddit to assess the situation. The Redditor believes that her mother is upset about the strong boundary that she's established. She promises she won't tell my dad until he cools down but I don't believe her. "While my mom claimed not to care for the first months, she's began asking me to give her the address so that she knows I'm safe and where to look if something ever happened. They have absolutely no idea where I am," the Redditor wrote. My sister and friends do, but my parents do not. A Redditor is being backed online after she revealed why she was keeping her home address a secret from her parents. This stock image shows a mother and daughter in the middle of an argument. However, she hasn't apologized for the way she treated her daughter. It's now been a couple of months now since the pair moved in together, and while the poster's father still won't speak to her, her mother has softened. My boyfriend immediately had me move in and my sister helped," she said. The things they said about me and my boyfriend were extremely hurtful and I decided that enough was enough. They gave me absolute hell and I don't think cried that much in years. Believe it or not but my mom got suspicious, followed me and saw me with him. This was because they would not approve for various reasons (different religion/culture/race)," the woman wrote in a now-viral post on Reddit's AITA (Am I The A******?). We've been dating for a couple of years now and my parents didn't know about him. This article was originally published in Working Mom August 2015 issue.A 23-year-old woman was backed online after sharing that she's keeping her new home address a "secret" from her controlling parents after a falling out about her relationship. They’re tired, possibly had a bad day, and just want to hear the voice of Ed Sheeran on replay. The moment teens step into the car, she starts shooting questions like “How was your day?” “Who did you eat with?” “How’s your friend?” Sometimes, she doesn’t understand that teens just want to sit back, listen to music, or sleep. When teens are too quiet, she thinks they are keeping a big secret. No matter how trivial or important their secrets are, teens trust that mom will keep them, so it becomes a big issue when she doesn’t. When this happens, teens feel stripped of their privacy. Mom tends to get excited and shares embarrassing news about their teens with Dad, siblings, and even their friends. She’s acting as if her teenager is marrying the guy already, and begins stalking him on Facebook, too. In fact, sometimes, teens have already moved on to another infatuation but mom is still stuck on her teen’s previous crush. They do not reveal their crushes’ identity to mom because she’s going to ask too many questions and make a big deal out of it. There are some secrets that teens are too shy to share with mom-like boy-girl relationships. Some secrets are too embarrassing to share Their friends are probably facing the same problem or have encountered the same situation, thus they can pretty much empathize and give helpful advice. Teens share more secrets with friends not because they want to keep mom out of their lives but because their friends are able to relate to them more than she does. They want to hear other teens’ point of view Sometimes, teens would like to be the one to discover the solutions to their problems. This makes teens feel bad because it seems like they are not capable of making smart decisions and choices. When teens tell mom their problems, she would get upset or try to solve them for her kids. They want to be able to correct their own mistakes So teens would rather keep their mouth shut. Teens feel the generation gap when we try to tell mom how we do things and she says, “When I was your age.” This is a total turn-off sometimes because what’s meant to be a funny story suddenly turns into a lecture with a moral lesson at the end. They don’t want to hear the same old ‘lecture’






Keep it a secret from your mother